Hi, I am looking for someone to write an article on main aspects of interpersonal communication Paper must be at least 1250 words. Please, no plagiarized work! I realized the importance of interpersonal communication skills when I was confronted with a situation where we had to decide about a term paper topic. The term paper required was to be completed by two members, the term paper could be on a diagnostic study or a feasibility report. I wanted to pursue the option of feasibility report but the other member wanted to pursue the first option. The scenario created a heated debate between both of us. The conversation was getting fierce and we both were giving our own reasons. Many previous situations were being discussed and neither of us was ready to accept the other’s point of view. The view seemed as if there was going to be an emotional outburst.
He wanted to select the diagnostic option because he is of the view that diagnostic studies will be easily completed. The reason he provided was the availability of data through secondary sources and it wouldn’t be time-consuming. On the other hand, I was of the opinion that we did diagnostic studies earlier in previous courses, therefore we should select the option which offers a new path of learning. The conflict was based on an issue that created a content conflict between both of us. We both had different motives for selecting our choices. The argument that we had during our communication was making our positions awkward as we never faced such a heated conversation earlier.
The reasons which made the debate heated were because we were asking too many “why” questions to each other, we were debating on each other’s answers, were asking irrelevant details, and most importantly were not listening to each other. It was difficult for both of us to listen to each other as we both were criticizing each other’s approach. The situation for both of us got out of control.
When a conflict occurs it can have both positive and negative effects. In our case we had been friends for a very long period of time, .hence deep down inside we both varied of the negative impacts on our relationship. . .After a while when we realized that we are going nowhere with this debate, he asked me to stop it here. .